Jayne you should have said what was upsetting you

My last BT was fine levels are now at 379 which the Dr said was a good rise.
Not sure what you mean by this Is it secret squirrel stuff from the rest of your family?
If you mean are we not going to tell our families then no we are not. We will wait until after the 12wks scan just to be sure everything is still going okay.
I know DH's family was thinking of coming for Christmas and we both know as soon as they are told they will want to change thier plans but that is not going to happen this time. MIL came just after i had Alex and i ended up looking after everyone even with just have a c-section two weeks before.
I don't really care what the sex of the baby is.

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