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    OK something must be in the air cos i just lost my big post too..........

    All i can manage now is a "HI!!"



    Amy CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!! You know what i think i missed your post or i have congratulated you and forgotten. How are you feeling?

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    Shan...nup... She came last night... CD1 for me Oh well, it's not like I wasn't expecting her.

    Kez... How are you... maybe you do have a bean in there?

    Hope I am glad that line showed up nice and fast for you... heaps of *stickies* your way!!

    Have a good time away Missy!!

    Well CD 1 today... I hope the ttw for O goes quickly... Urgh!!

    TL

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    hope- Hang in there okay!! I know exactly what you are going through because the same thing happened with my preg. And everything turned out well with our little girl about to turn 2 :-)
    I had bleeding on and off with her for a week or 2 and it was the worst time and many tears I can tell you.
    I prayed so hard and my prayers were answered. Bleeding isn't always a bad sign okay.
    Although its a really rough patch to have to go through!
    Sticky Vibes and lots of them coming your way...

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    Tanya - we must've been posting together! Sorry to hear that the witch made her unwelcome visit. Next month will be yours:-)

    GL to everyone else...

    I should be due about next week. Hmmm I wonder if there is a surprise waiting for me! That would be really nice:-) We can only cross our fingers cant we.
    I try hard not to take too much notice of symptoms I might be feeling because we imagine them so easily dont we! Lol.

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    good morning my lovely ladies,

    Megan grrr @ loosing a big post I know how that feels LOL

    Hope as hard as it is and OMG I know how hard it is LOL try not to worry to much, I had that with my DS and was in tears as it was such a severe pain but he is going on 6 now and was born a very healthy little man. I have been having some AF like cramping over the past few days too and I am with you on the constant TP checking its hard not to but I just keep trying to tell myself that it is normal and it is as I know quite a few ladies who have had the same thing, I think its just the growing etc and the increased bloodflow also may cause it to happen, I am thinking of you hun.

    Missy hope you have a good time away.

    Tanya bloomin wich LOL I have everything crossed for you taht this cycle is the one for you hun.

    Kez oooooohhh you just never know hun, have you done another HPT to see?

    Calimum Yup ISKWYM hun I am feeling the same atm just trying to stay a little numb I supose and seeing what happens, LMAO @ beinga strong little grasshopper hehehe that cracked me up and crossing your eyelashes you must be one talented gal LOL I will be thinking of you over the weekend and sending you loads and loads of BFP vibes.

    Kelly heya hun, its great to hear from you, and so great to see your ticker progressing along so fabulously.

    a huge hi to Lisa, shan, Clare, Kirsty, Lou, and anyone else I have not mentioned hope you are all doing greaat atm.

    Me I am doing ok I think, still feeling a little like I am in a bit of a numb state and am kina trying not to acknowlege this pg to much till I have the bt results of which I have not even had a bt to get yet LOL, I am waiting till next week, and have now done 2 hpt and one opk and all posative and no sign of af accept a few crampy feelings but know from past experiance that all of that is very normal, I am starting to get light headedness and dizzy spells, and my appetite is not very big atm, so I am feeling not to shabby. we have not told anyone yet not a singel soul accept I had to tell you ladies LOL a gal's gotta tell someone doesnt she, and its funny cause this time I dont feel the need or the rush to tell everyone, I think its all of that just in case stuff in the back of my mind, after I have the bt and get the results I will start telling family. although I dont want to tell MIL as her only coment when I lost our last baby was well tahts gotta be a sign that you should not have anymore, I tell you I could have literally throttled her through the phone, she is lucky she did not say it to my face. so I dont want her to know cause she is just such a sour old cow and wont be happy at all, I also feel terrible as I found out on Monday that SIL had a m/c last week @ 5 weeks and they have been trying for about 8 months now so I will feel terrible announcing it to her at this time although she keeps asking if I have tested yet and I just keep saying no.
    Ok enough about me and my probs we are moving this weekend so I wont be on a whole lot but will have access to a pc so wont miss much and will be able to catch up.

    any way my lovelies I hope you all have a fab weekend.
    MWAH
    chat soon

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    Hello my lovely ttc friends,


    Hope - sending loads of sticky vibes your way hun. Im sure its just your little munchking making himself (or her) comfy. How are you feeling today??

    Hindolny - Praying you get a nice suprise next week hun. I hear you on those symtpoms though - its so easy to over analyse and turn into a wreck. i love your attitude and I hope it brings you that bfp.

    Tanya - bummer about af - onwards and upwards this cycle though. It would be nice if we could all clear the decks before xmas.

    Cilmum - sweety where are you at in your cycle?? Hope your headed towards that bfp soon.

    Kez - im so glad that you are feeling better and more positive sweets. I hope that this is your month too.

    Shan - hows the job hunting going? hang in there - something will come up soon And whats happeneing with your cycle miss??

    Clare - how is the thyroid coming along? I hope it gets treated quickly so you can get your bfp!

    Lou - when are you starting the bd fest???

    Mako - sweety are you up for testing soon?? It seems ive lost track of everyone. Hope your doing well.

    Nic - hi there hun - how are things going for you atm

    Kate - Kelly and I both have been concerned about you. Pls drop us a line if you can.

    Kelly - Im so glad you are doing so well hun. Big belly rubs to you. Do you remember Kate's username?? Im a bit worried about her too.

    A big hi to everyone else ........

    Me - well af is over!! YIPEEEE.... back to the bedroom for me!! will try and have a super dooper bd fest this cycle. Im getting desperate for that bfp. Well dh and I have decided to wait it out until Feb and then we will go and see a FS and get all the testing done etc to decide what the next course of action might be if no bfp by then.

    Cant wait for the weekend - one more day!! Planning to do some shopping and relaxing over this weekend. Catching up with a friend on sunday who has a gorgeus little 5 month old girl. She was premmie so cant wait to see how much she has grown. Im a bit sad to as my bub would have been 6 weeks younger than her. But Im hoping some of that baby magic might rub off on me

    Hope you all have a wonderful day
    Lisa

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    Amy - we posted at the same time! I know how you feel about not really believing this pg just yet. When will you go and have the bt?? Im so sorry about your SIL - and maybe you should tell her when you two are on your own rather than making a big announcement in front of everyone IYKWIM?

    You take care of your little pg belly and try to relax, you will have this baby. Sending you heaps of sticky vibes sweety.

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    Good morning to all

    This is just a quick one as I have to take Sam to his orientation at kinder. Got my positive OPK yesterday, so have been BD like crazy. Fingers toes and everything else crossed that we have caught the little guy. Here goes another torturous TWT. Sending hugs and sticky vibes to everyone.

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    good luck Lou I hope you cought that little eggie I have my fingers crossed for you hun.

    Lisa YAY that af has gone and fingers and toes and everything else crossed for you babe this month is the one, I can feel it in my bones LOL. I will go next week and get the bt done probably book an appointment on monday or wednesday or something, so will have results by the end of next week by the latest I should think, I was thinking the same about SIL too I dont want to make a grand ol' announcement and make her feel like crap so yeah I think I will tell her in private first, although DH has this thing with parents knowing first and his mum is one of the biggest gossipers around and is very close to SIL so I am thining if dh tells MIL she will get on the ophone straight away to SIL, do you think its alright to tell her over email or is that a bit impersonel???

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    Thanks Amy - I hope your right about me

    As for you SIL - I think you should tell her yourself either in person or on the phone. Dont even tell dh that you have told her - I think she would appreciate you telling her first and in private. You can tell that you are really sorry for her loss and that you want to tell her to give her some time before you make a big annoucnement to the rest of the family. Im sure you know her best and know how you should tell her - but I really think that she would appreciate that you have gone to an extra effort to try and not hurt her feelings atm. Does that make sense?

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    Amy, I'd call her & at least tell her by phone rather than email.

    Okay, the long awaited pretzel description... Think of a curly pretzel - he sits upright with legs almost crossed (more comfy with soles of feet together), you sit astride him with your legs crossed at the ankles around his back. Hmmmm yummy... LOL

    Lisa - I'm CD27, POAS tomorrow (coz I can't bear just to wait out af's arrival!) although last cycle was 30 days, so I dunno... I can't believe I'm actually getting nervous about it.

    I don't have much time this morning - we're all teething here - DD's getting her 3rd & 4th teeth through & can you believe it - I'm getting a wisdom tooth through too! I'm 34! This is ridiculous! So lack of sleep & time to do anything productive means I shouldn't be hanging in here too long...

    Wishing you all a fabbo weekend - happy pretzel practice everyone! xx

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    Thanks Lisa and Cilmum, I think I will take your advice and tell her in person, I agree that it would be much more considerate of her feelings if I were to do that than over email or anything or by her just finding out via MIL's gossiping ways, so will do that next time we see her, as we dont plan on announcing anything much very soon at all.

    Thanks again girls

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    Cilmum - PSML at Pretzel Practice!! I will try during this bd fest!! Best of luck for your POAS tommorw - hope its a BFP!

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    Cilmum - now that you've given us the pretzel description I know the position you now mean ;-) lol.

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    Hi

    Amy, I'm soooo bloomin mad at your MIL about her comment to you about not having any more bubs. How RUDE. I would make sure she was the very last person to tell. Anyway I hope you and bub are ok and that your move goes smoothly.

    Hindonly, I have absolutely everything crossed for you hun.

    Lou, Good luck with the bding and remember it can never be warn out lol. I hope Sams orientation went well.

    LisaL, I'm due for af on Monday. I sooooo hope she doesn't visit and I get a BFP. I'm so sick of ttc. I try not to obssess about it all but sometimes we just can't help it. I have been a bit emotional and snappy this week so I'm nearly possitive that the witch will show up. I also go back to specialist on Monday so I will see what our next approach will be if no bfp.

    Cilmum, Love the description of pretzel, have been pmsl too. I hope the teething is over soon for all involved.

    Missy, Have a good time away.

    Tanya, Good luck for next cycle and GO TEAM BLUE.

    Clare, Nic, Shan and everyone else I hope you are all ok.

    Have a good weekend and lots of bding going on.

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    Yup gotta laugh about the pretzel position 'these pretzels are making me thirsty' hehehehe sorry but it had to be said LMAO.

    Mako Thankyou for your kind words, I too am still rather mad at my MIL she is not a very nice women, she is a bit of a gossip queen and likes to intimidate people especially those who are like me and dont like confrontation, these days I just have little to no contact with her and mostly ignore her when she is around, I dont have much time for her anymore.

    I really hope that monday brings you an early christmas wish hun I will be thinking of you with everything crossed, I was a little moody and emotional last week and felt for sure af was on her ugly way LOL so there is still hope for you sweets good luck

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    Theres gotta be a BFP lurking here somewhere! :-)

    Mako Fingers Crossed for you too.

    Who else is in the 2ww here? I need to know who to watch out for,lol.

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    Hello my lovelies...

    Amy - Going from experience, I would definately your SIL in person, and just the two of you. My Bro and SIL decided to announce in the middle of the street out front of our old shop in front of everyone that i was going to be an aunty, and i totally lost it. I couldn't believe that they could have been so inconsiderate to my feelings (even though i had m/c 18 months prior), but still, there was no other children in our family, and my angel would have been the first, so it was a huge shock to me. I'm still not 100% about it, but i love my little nephew to bits, and i just wished that they could have come to see me in person, just the two of them, and let me know gently.....mind you, they did invite me out for dinner the night before with the rest of the family to make the big announcement, but unfortunately (which is now luckily) i had other plans...so yeah, let her know in person.....xxxx Good luck with the move hun....i so know how you must be feeling right about now..

    Lisa - love ya babe....i'm fine...CD16 today. No real CM to even consider fertile, but this morning it seems to be more noticable, so it could happen over the weekend. DH has had a HUGE week at work this week, so we've only had one BD and that was last Sunday which was CD11, so it could have been a bit early, but once again, going on CM, it hasn't happened yet....how are you going???

    Tanya - bummer about AF arriving. Onwards and upwards. You've got a great attitude and will no doubt have a nice BFP before xmas...xxx

    Kez - Did you test again??? A short AF may not have been AF, well i hope not anyway. Let us know how you get on....mwah..xxx

    Hi everyone else...sorry, being slack today. I've got the cleaning bug, and have been cleaning everything...even stuff that isn't dirty....but i think that is coz my Mum rang to say that they are coming to Melbs this weekend and is going to drop in and see us on their way home on Sunday, and she critisises everything, so i'm preparing myself (and the house) for her arrival.....got i hate it...i'm so glad i moved away from them. I have two friends that i miss terribly, but other than that, i'm glad to be away from the family. Well except of course my little nephew, but whenever i ever got a cuddle of him anyway, mum would put on the pouty face coz 'it's her turn' so i never got any real time with him anyway, and she see's him everyday. AAAAGGGGGHHHHHH

    Um...do you think i have issues.....lol....

    Maybe i just needed to vent a bit, coz i feel better now, but as soon as i start talking about stuff i can't stop...so sorry about that, but you guys are my family anyway and i love you all to death.....xxxxxx

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