Thanks everybody. FIL still status quo. not better or worse. and my chart still looks funny.

hopingsoon: as long as your temp doesn't go below the coverlid (and you dont' have full flow), it counts as an elevated temp and you're still in the luteal phase. you can have some fluctuation. Keeping my fingers crossed!

Katiegirl: my understanding is that every other day is partly so you can see the CM, but also because it gives the sperm adequate time to build back up. but remember, this is just stacking the odds. Plenty of people do it every day and get preg, and we've all heard stories of some little teenybopper who did it only once and got preg.

Angel Babies: sending cyberhug for encouragement when you have to pick up your precious babies urn. I can't imagine how heartrending. I'll be praying for you.