TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ March 08

[tina_k]

Hi Everyone, especially all those who are feeling down, and have AF or are in 2WW.

thank you Angel for your positive words, i really needed them, and am trying to stop myself from sinking into that pit!

Canary, well, you and i are on the same track here, i am also at CD3, however, unlike you (im so jealous that your going away) i have mum and dad visiting over easter which is prime BD time, and our place is very small with ver thin walls! dont know what to do!!! i also had a situation yesterday with my pg SIL that made me get really angry, but imm trying to calm myself down and not get hung up on it..
PBstar - sorry about AF,
treelo, congrats on the move, good luck with BDing

[Trac73]

HI Everyone

Angel - Thanks for your positive words they really do help.........i will be trying to let the crap pass me by and focus on something positive from the situation. For example my dad might be having treatment but he is alive. And even though i feel like i have been TTC forever and it is not happening at least i am having fun BDing and i am with my DH my best best freiend and true love.

pbstar - Sorry to hear that you AF has arrived, i know it is disappointing but just think the sooner it finishes the sooner you can get TTCign again.

Canary - Enjoy your couple of nights away with DH..It is always nice to have time alone without any worries of house, cooking etc and happy BDing..

Brockstar, Katiegirl, Nickstar and All the other BFP ladies - I am thinking of you all during this time of excitement, nervousness and eagerness of getting to 12 weeks.

Jodsan - Take care of yourself and i will be keeping my fingers crossed for you dreams to come true

To everyone TTC, BFP, AF or 2WW i am thinking of you all and sending lots of your way

[pbstar]

hi girls

thanks for your kind words

AF has not yet arrived- due Thursday but i just got a BFN this morning so i am pretty sure it's on the way- wish it would hurry up though so I can get it over with!

[Katiegirl]

Hi all. The GP called and my HCG from Friday is 417 - so she is happy with that. She offered for me to come in again to get another BT done but I have decided that I need to start accepting the good news each time I receive it instead of looking for something else to go wrong. She said I can call at any time to arrange for another BT if I need to. So for now I am going to work on being positive and thinking happy thoughts. She also told me that a friend of hers was praising my Ob Mark Umstad, so happy to hear that.

I feel good about my GP and Ob choice - as last time I never really liked the GP I had. So all looking good.

Trac - glad to see you finding the positives in your life. I will take inspiration from you.

To everyone else TTCing, TWW, AF etc, good luck and let's all stay strong together.

PS. Still too much of a scaredy cat to post in the PAML thread...will wait until afer the Ob appointment at 7 weeks.

[Brockstar]

PS. Still too much of a scaredy cat to post in the PAML thread...will wait
until afer the Ob appointment at 7 weeks

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Me too. From last Friday to this coming Friday is just waiting agony!!! Will test again then and if it is still then I will go and get BT and hope that the hcg levels are respectable. At least then it would be a positive. Last pregnancy I didn't even think to ask GP about hcg results - in fact, there is a hell of a lot I have learnt in here since February!

I guess I am still a little confused about due dates as well. I am thinking that if I o'd on 22/2 (as per OB's observations), I just add 38 weeks instead of 40? And in doing that, I'm looking at early November, if all goes well

Katiegirl - good for you! Congrats to you. A small step forward

Pbstar, Trac73, Jodsan - :group hug:

Angel Babies - you are an incredible woman! You know what to say at just the right moment.

TinaK - how about getting your parents drunk? Let 'em pass out and then they won't hear anything through the paper thin walls... (Did I really write that??) If it's time to BD, then it's time to BD!!

Treelo - hope you are well on your way to being settled in your new house.

If I've missed anyone, I am truely sorry!

[bettyboop]

i have been away on my own for a couple of days and brought a new car, photo in my photos, amazing how retail therpy can take your mind off thing for today anyway, dont know what my body is doing as my temp has gone way up dont know.

[plc1805]

betty boop - as always big !
katiegirl and brockstar - that everything goes your way, prayer and positivity help!!! brockstar - never occurred to me either re hcg tests, I'm sure to be asking about them next time. I understand re PAML - very scary!
pbstar -
trac - way to be positive, ur doin it well!
tina - your situation reminded me of back in Jan when it was o-time DH and I were down the beach with my family, there are only 2 rooms and I was sharing my room with my bro and sil as well as my DH. NO WAY we could BD so we went down to the beach in the late evening and DTD in some secluded area. is there anywhere you could escape to? chin up, hun!
treelo - ul get there
mollycat - wow! 20 kilos - that's sensational - as well as inspirational!! well done!!
canary - keep that positivity going hun - nothing like looking forward to some good BDing to help it along !!
tempus - thx hun for ur post!! hope ur ok.
jodsan - big hugs to u hun
angelbabies - bday buddy - ur my idol where inspirational talk goes - hope ur TWW marches right up to a BFP and taps it on the shoulder

me - ob said that AF 2 weeks post lap is normal but I still need to wait til post-op check-up in mid-april before we can TTC - precautionary measure, frustrating but necessary ......staying positive that nothing else is gonna get in my way in the meantime

anyone I might have missed - apologies and huge hugs