Klee - I am so sorry for the loss of Phoebe :hugs: It is hard to explain the path you are on (or that some of us have travelled before you) but we can support you through this time.

There are good days and bad days .... eventually the bad days get less and the good days more frequent but you never forget your baby. And the bad days sneak up on you when you least expect it. You are only 4 weeks into your grieving. Be patient with yourself and allow as much time as you need to process Phoebe's death. Don't ever feel like you should be "over it". You are never over it, you just deal with it.

There are a beautiful bunch of women who have experienced a late pregnancy loss (as well as beautiful women who have not experienced that path but still give me amazing support) on BB. Their support has helped me through my darkest moments and they continue to give me amazing support as I negotiate the emotional minefield of this pregnancy. I hope you can find the support you need at this time here with us.