Bun, I'm so sorry about the treatment you received. How awful for you, with everything else you're going through.

I know you're waiting on your health insurance to kick in, so i would definitely go and see a well-respected OB and have your records transferred to him/her. This way if there's something else they want to test they can, if not at least you will feel that everything under the sun has been checked, and can go into your next pg hoping and believing that everything will be okay. And you can start to build a relationship with that Dr, who will hopefully be your OB throughout your next pg.

I have been seeing My OB as my gynae for over seven years now, and it's so lovely to see someone who knows me so well. He was wonderful when we miscarried and I was so thankful that I have him. I think you will feel better next pg if you have a Dr you can really trust on your side.

I know that Kelly and Jayne seem very happy with their OBs, maybe you could see about getting a referral to one of them? Or both, and then decide which you feel most comfortable with. Or if you prefer someone else, I'm sure they (Kel and Jayne) have friends who could recommend other OBs.

Whatever you decide to do, I wish you all the best. I know you will get through this terrible time, and go on to have your happy and healthy bubba.