thread: Trying to Conceive after Stillbirth/Recurrent Miscarriage/Late Loss

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    Morning Lovely's, Hope everyone had a nice long weekend... wasn't long enough if you ask me

    Beata, I'm going to remember that phrase! I might go and get that book as well that you're reading

    Paula, How are you feeling? Still on your BFP high no doubt haha. I hear you about being pedantic. I still haven't drunken or eaten anything you wouldn't when you are pregnant. DF things I'm nuts as lots of people who do still go on to bring their babies home. He even asked me on the weekend if I was pregnant again already and I wasn't telling him yet, rolf. Like I'd be able to contain my excitement from him!

    Syran, you have to stop lurking and post, girl! it's nice having someone in here from my old due date thread, even if the reason for being here isn't as nice.

    DD, Enjoy your holiday! Tell us about it when you get back won't you? DF and I are hoping to get up there one of these days.. it'd be good to know all the hots spots

    Jo76, you poor thing you have had a busy weekend! Make sure you rest up.

    Jo, that poem is very bittersweet, isn't it?

    Theresa, I hope you start feeling better shortly, get plently of rest! Heck, don't even bother going to work if you're just feeling lazy even I'm so glad you have a well trained DF to take care of you as well

    Berry, Sorry to hear about AF. When I complained about mine everyone kept telling me to remember that it is a sign that I'm healthy and without it I wouldn't be able to have babies. At the time it didn't help but once you head clears a bit it all becomes a bit more logical.

    Dee, What a lovely thing your brother did for you and Cloe. We got photos of Jayvan from the hospital, and the tiniest little feet and hand prints that I cherish!
    I would love to hear your story one day of your beautiful angel, when you fee like telling it. I don't know how many of you ended up here still.

    Tildy "Jesus is going to keep killing your babies until you start believing in him" What!? She said that to you? Some days I honestly believe that there is no Jesus or God. And if there is He needs his head read. I can't see why He can take babies away from woman who will truely love, cherish, want and most importantly, deserve them and yet there are so many children in foster care because their parents are not fit to look after them. I'm not saying that they should be punished in this way, no one deserves to lose a child, but really, if we are going to start talking about higher powers picking who should mother a child and who shouldn't for whatever reasons I know who I would choose, and it wouldn't be based on what they believed in!
    I don't want to start up a religion debate or anything like that, and I am a very open minded person towards religion but sometimes my logic takes over a bit and I just wanna go "D'er!" Comments like that make me fume just a little. Sorry for ranting. And I'm sorry you had to cut ties with your mother, I'd imagine it would have been a very difficult choice to make.

    AFM! Well I spent more of the weekend sleeping as I could feel a cold coming on. Usually I fight it but this time I thought stuff it, and let it run it's course. I'm glad I did though as I think all the sleeping has helped knock it on the head. I've also started taken in-liven to help my immune system so hopefully that starts kicking in soon as well!!
    And true to our nature DF and I change our minds more frequent than our underwear! We've decided to wait until Jayvan's tests come back in to make sure that it's nothing that will happen again before we start TTC again. DF thinks I'll be a dribbling mess if it does. Which he has a point, I'll be devistated. Don't you hate it when they're just so logical? On the brighter side though I ovulate dead on day 15 (which is today) and is very easy to pick up! So, I'm glad my body is working like clockwork again.

    Hope everyone enjoy's their short week this week, don't work to hard! xx


    PS. I have just called my Gyno and our tests results should be in tomorrow! Hopefully I wouldn't have missed my cycle
    Last edited by helle; January 27th, 2009 at 01:40 PM.