Laney - I am so happy that you are feeling a little better today and I am crossing everything for your scan on Tues, this time will be just as good as the last scan.
Dee - I didn't know what to do for Cooper's EDD, so in the end my MIL & FIL just took me out for the day, we went shopping and then had a nice lunch, it felt like it was a trivial thing to do on such an important day, BUT it turned out to be really nice, took my mind off the day for a while. It doesn't matter what you do, just taking the time to get through the day and don't feel pressured to be 'on top of it' tonight, hopefully your friends and DH will be as much comfort as my family was on Cooper's EDD.
Diana - I remember when we started to try again, my best friend/cousin had been trying with me with Cooper and still hadn't fallen so again we were trying together. I felt such anxiety that she would fall before me, when we fell pregnant again after the 3rd cycle, she was still not pregnant, and the shoe was on the other foot, I felt guilty about that too, we just can't win! After about 14months of trying they have just had there 2nd lot of IVF and today is preg test day, I am hoping to GOD she gets her BFP this time. So no you are not selfish it is a very natural reaction.
Jo - You made me laugh with the dildo cam, oh the joys! Good luck will that be your last one? Talk about my ticker yours has gone out of sight!
Rozzie - I think you have made a very sound decision, glad your DR was so good about putting the facts/lack of clearly in front of you, and hey worst case scenario 2 bambinos, that's gold.
Jo76 - Karma needs a kick in the butt! I think she got the address wrong!