hey girls,
its funny (in not funny way) that the topis of preg/babies of others and how to deal with them has come up. Same thing has happened to me just over the last couple of days. I am really proud and happy and excited for my brother and his girlfriend BUT at the same time i had a cry (and felt incredibly selfish for it) because if madison had lived to her EDD, there would have been only a month and a bit between them. So i felt really conflicted but hated myself for it. On the upside i have been very excited looking at baby stuff for them...and the smoking thing -don't get me started. i was meant to be going up to sydney with mum and dad on thurs but since DS and DD have school and kinder starting mon and tues i can't now. Probably best for now, as if i saw her smoking like i did at christmas i'm not sure how i would be. And tildy since they are up there there is'nt a good non smoking example around this bubs as her whole family smokes too. (right around her SIL kids)Funny how my kids already think (and it bloody better stay that way)that smoking is the most disgusting thing on the planet due to the ads on tv! (wo-ho for those ads) They will question or make a comment quite loudly if we are out about seeing someone smoke. gotta love them!
rozzie -6 weeks!!!! so exciting for you! so soon!!! i'm glad you know where you are at so your mind can be put at ease and you can hopefully relax a little.
katie - you talking about the dvd made me wish that we had taken up the dvd offer when i saw our high risk specialist when madison was still alive. I said no because i had been sent to the high risk and was freaking out due to what had happened with Jack and i did'nt want to get excited about a dvd when they might have said she had died. So now hearing you say what you did about watching it i wish we had that wonderful dvd too! Continue to cherish it as i know you will. It will be wonderful for anna to see her big brother too.
teagz - your thoughts about preg and jayvan were very sweet, and you will have another whole person to love quite differently to him. I always worried about that with my earth babies, hoe could i love DD the same as DS, i do love them the same but in different ways as they are seperate personalities. Even the same for Jack and Madison, i love them both dearly but have different moments with them to treasure. And that cervix thing was soooooooooooo interesting -it grossed out DS who asked what it was and i had to try and explain! lol!
laney- am thinking of you! thanks for you email - you made alot of sense!!!! Am always here for you!
lan - thanks for my horoscope! there was so much positive stuff in it! heres to a wonderful year for both of us!!!
gotta go guys! my dh has to go to work today due to the neverending heat (he is in refrigeration) he has'nt been home before 12am the past few nights and the kids are so out of wack because dad has'nt been home like normal.
take care!!
xx jo