Thank you so much everyone for yuor repleis.
I joined the TTC for older women board and they seem a really nice group.
Lynn and AuntyM thank you for your words and I am so sorry too to read of your losses of Cooper and Yeti.
It really is so hard to comprehend that one minute you are having a baby and the next (in my case) listening to a monitor of a heart in distress and there is nothing you can do. They had picked up her heartbeat but it was swinging from 180 down to 40 for 4 hrs til it stopped. The on call OB did not even suggest a c sec and I found out later it was because they were sure the lack of oxygen would have meant she was beyond help anyhow. Still, I feel like there was no sugegstion of help.
The reassurance when I was pg with Samuel was my own OB who said if we had any problems he would rather deliver a baby with a chance at as early as 26 wks than wait to deliver a stillborn.
Hugs and thanks for the warm welcome
Judy