Judy - I too am so sorry for all your losses. I could not believe the nerve of the sonographer. People like this should not be in a position where such compassion should be given to patients dealing with loss, which they would encounter alot. I have 4 children, have had a couple of m/c's and their loss is just as real and painful, and by no means would they be replaced. For anyone to say to me, at least you have children, it does not mean it hurts any less. No loss of a baby/child should be pushed to a side as if it meant nothing, just because we already have children. My babyangels are in my heart everyday and will be forever.
I feel for you so much and I truly hope that you find some happiness really soon. My thoughts are with you. I cannot begin to even express to you, how sorry I am that you have been thu all of this.
The girsl here are just so wonderful and caring. Whenever you want to vent we are all here. Hugs