Lynn the hurdles are getting higher and harder, but if anyone can jump them, it is you.

I agree that if it is at all possible you should try your hardest to stay positive, but it doesn't change the fact that you are allowed to feel all the other emotions such as anger and dispair. I can understand how your DH feels, I think he is just trying to make it better like most men do.

Your M&D are wonderful parents. I am so glad that you have them for support.

Luv Spring