Oh Klee...I became an Aunty 4 weeks ago and it is a time of such mixed emotions. Your family sound so caring and understanding...which is really special. I spent the afternoon with my nephew on Friday and I just love him to bits but it did cross my mind...'would our babies have looked like him?'...he is the first bub on my side of the family which stirs up all those types of questions I guess...anyway...I'm dribbling...just wanted you to know I think you are so brave xxx