thread: TTC after Stillbirth/Recurrent Miscarriage or Loss after the 1st Trimester March 2007

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  1. #1
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    Dec 2006
    922

    Hey everyone,

    Nat - you are such a strong woman. I am so glad that I have you around to support me :hugs: I hope you got some sleep last night. Take care, thinking of you.

    Spring - Woo hoo - 13 weeks! How are you feeling? I bet you can't wait for DH to come this weekend and show him all the photos of lil' Spring and that beautiful spine! I saw the ad for savings babies (which usually I walk away - I just can't watch it, even the ads) and I said to DH, I hope Spring didn't see that. It is hard to see or hear our babies names. Cooper is not common although I have seen it around here on peoples sigs. I hope you are feeling ok today.

    Mel - that is excellent about the job. It will keep your mind busy and it sounds like it won't be a stressful job so that will help with your BFP this month! That would be great if we all got our BFP this month, although I am a little bit behind you guys because of my long cycle But I am that positive I have worked out my due date - call me crazy but hey I've got to get through the day somehow!

    Bailey - LOL at your wedding plans! Sometimes I think a low key event is the way to go. I remember my sisters wedding last year - bridezilla!!!!! It would have been great if she had done what you are doing. It doesn't matter how you celebrate it as long as you are both happy. It is hard that everything we do, there is someone missing. They are in our hearts but they still feel like they are missing.

    Deb - good to see that you aren't here, because that means you are busy! It must be great to have DH back for the company but also in time for

    A non-eventful day for me today, dentist and cleaning the house - what fun! I'm looking forward to tomorrow. I know I shouldn't be looking forward to a BT (Spring you will think I am a nutcase!!!!) but I am looking forward to actually doing something positive to get me that BFP this month. They said that they will be able to ring me on Saturday lunchtime with the results and then we can work out how often I need to go in for a BT and u/s. I dnn't care how many holes I have in my arm as long as it works!!!!

    I hope everyone has a nice Friday.

    Luv & hugs
    Lynn
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  2. #2
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    Dec 2006
    922

    Hey Mel - are you doing opk's this month? I know you hate them

  3. #3
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    Oct 2006
    686

    Hey all,

    Its really quiet in here huh.

    Lynn - I am not doing OPKs this month. Your right I do hate them, I think I really stressed myself out last month because they gave me all negs but I did actually O so I figure we will just (hehe) away and hope for the best. Plus I dont have any left and didnt order any online, and they ones in the shops are pretty expensive especially when they are not necessarily accurate. How was your quiet day today? Hope it was ok and your are feeling alright. Well done on the cleaning, I have lacked so much motivation this week. Being home for 2 weeks you would think my house would be spotless... but I am sorry to admit that I am a domestic dud! DH knew this before marrying me though LOL.

    I spent the day at my sisters house and then went to pick DH from work. He is now on his way home from picking the kids up and I am going to try my hardest to be more patient with them so I am not the evil step mother that I was last weekend. I am just gonna do a quick tidy before they get here (have been slack this week!). Oh and good luck with BT tomorrow.

    I hope everyone is having a good day.

    Take care,

    Mel
    Last edited by Mel1977; March 16th, 2007 at 07:55 PM.

  4. #4
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    Oct 2006
    home sweet home.
    1,995

    Hey girls

    Well I am fuming at the moment because our stinking tenants are the biggest pains in the behind and look like they are going to try to take us to the Residential Tribunal because we refuse to extend the cement under the clothesline. They are crazy, it is not their house!!!! They even hung up on our Real Estate Agent, HOW RUDE. I am just so angry but as DH said, they can do what they like, we are not budging and their lease is up in July so see you later... It just makes me angry but I know there are more important things in life to worry about so up theres..... They forget that I prosecute people for a living so if they want a fight, bring it on.

    On a positive note, and as I try to stop fuming, I got the report with the risks from the ultrasound back today. Everything seems great. Chance of Trisomy 21 is 1:31963 and chance of Trisomy 13,18 is 1:17535. Can't complain with numbers like that.

    DH is on his way and I have just walked in the door so I am going to try to get a shower in and tidy up a bit. Depending on how I go I'll pop in later for personals. I don't think I will call around the family tonight and tell them about Lil Spring because I am so angry that I don't want to spoil what should be an exciting time. You never know, I might calm down. I guess I should try and laught about it becuase obviously they are very pathetic people who have nothing better to do.

    Big love
    Spring

  5. #5
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    Oct 2006
    686

    Hey Spring,

    Those people need to get a life... I wouldnt worry about it too much, I think its a lot of trouble to go to those lengths and for concrete I dont think they would win. I mean if the oven wasnt working and you refused to fix or something like that they would have a case. But over concrete? I lived in a unit once that didnt have any concrete and so we couldnt use the line in the winter months because it got muddy and actually our line is at the side of our house now and there is bark underneath it (we dont use it cause I am scared of spiders), I dont think there is actually anything "illegal" about it. Plus didnt they inspect the house before they moved in? If they didnt like it they should have kept looking! Dont let it ruin your weekend, DH is coming home, you have amazing news to tell your family and you are going to make them all so happy (whether that is tonight or tomorrow or whenever you choose) so forget those people. Like DH said, not a good way to get you to renew the lease huh! LOL

    Have a nice shower and enjoy your night with DH and lil Spring, they are all that matters

    Oh, and those results are fantastic - and a cause for celebration Yet another sign that everything is going to be just fine and you will be meeting lil Spring in 6 months or so

  6. #6
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    Dec 2006
    Sydney
    459

    Hi gal's,

    Lynn - Bridezilla I ain't! I think I could be every man's dream missus, don't want a big wedding, don't like flowers or wear jewellery AND i love the cricket! Lol. Hey, good luck with the bloods tomorrow, I know it is not fun, but it is one step closer to your BFP.

    Spring - How stupid are your tennants? Have I missed something? Since when is it a sue-able offence to not have concrete under the clothes line? Send em up a pair of rubber boots each and tell them to get over themselves. And definetly do not let them bother you on your weekend with DH, especially the weekend where you get to tell the family your good news. Woo hoo on your test results too!!

    Mel - Did you wait up last night? I gave DP last night off, but he ain't getting off so easy tonight. Lol. Hey, I don't really like the OPK's either, but where do you get them on line, cos in the chesmist they are about $25 for 7 and that is expensive for somethinkg that doesn't really work for me. But if they are cheaper online, maybe I will try them again.

    Flowerchild - How did your egg's go?

    Dream - How are you doing?

  7. #7
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    Oct 2006
    686

    HI Bailey,

    I get mine from a website that Spring put me onto... I think there is some rule about putting links to other websites so I will email it to you. I find them a little to expensive from the shop as well.

    Speaking of Bridezillas - on Foxtel sometimes I watch that show called Bridezillas and I always say to DH "see how lucky you are" LOL

    Mel