Stupidest thing to feel emotional about, I know! But I've realised that I'm not going to have a baby shower. I wanted *something* with DD so my doula hosted a blessingway for me. Only one person showed up Was still a lovely day but not the celebration I'd imagined. Now this time around its becoming obvious that I won't be having a baby shower. I know this is one of those ridiculous hormonal vents you look back on in times of greater rationality and go ha, well that was stupid! But right now it feels like a big deal. Guess I quite liked the idea of cupcakes and sandwiches and games with people who were there to be excited about my baby. Did anyone else never have one, and do you regret it?