Fire - well, I love you. You provide such a nice balance to everything that this forum and thread just wouldn't be worth it without you. Just my opinion... Good on you for all you've been through. My motherhood journey so far has been a piece of cake compared to yours. Even with a 'special needs' baby!

MagicSeahorse - I sincerely apologise for any offence. I certainly meant none. If you can bear it, I'd like you to post again so you can explain what offended you as I'd hate to do that to someone else unknowingly. I don't think I judged anyone or was smug in any way. I'm proud of my little man and will make no apology for that - but I certainly didn't mean to come across like that. Sorry.