OMG Jacci, that's terrible. That is very sad.
I feel sorry for the kids. If she didnt want to hurt or be hurt she would've told him b4 having an affair. Sorry, just my POV, no offence intended.
Both my parents attempted suicide around the time I was 18 (at diff times) & that was horrible, yes I agree Abs, they don't think how it will affect those left behind. And my mums dad committed suicide when mum was 13, so u'd think she would've known better, however they did loose their 2yo son from drowning. A work colleague did a murder suicide coz his wife was havin an affair, he left behind a few kids too. (he jumped off a cliff at same place/park we got married at few wks later)
Wow Jacci, u & hubby are just incredible with ur fitness, puts me to shame.

Becky, that must be hard, hope u get some answers/ideas or that Declan decides to start sleeping thru of his own accord, real soon.

Oh Bel, here's to a good nights sleep.

WTG on finding the rings Abs. Hope all goes well at hosp.