I managed to settle Greer - and yes Zennie she probably did want a feed, but I was concerned that it was something in my milk that caused the power chucks so didn't want to BF. I had to wait for the boiled water to cool to give her a bottle of formula. She drank 50mls and has now gone to sleep without being held. I also drank some chamomile tea so when she next needs to feed she will get that in the milk.
MGM - yes I have let all the tv/dvd viewing rules go out the window. Thankfully DH makes the time to play with DS when he gets home.