ohhhh soph ...I know what you mean about IL's...mine are the same whereas my mum respects my choices as a mother and does what I ask.

You really need to lay down the law with them. I would just say to them that you respect their opinians but at the end of the day they will go home and your DH will go back to work and it is you that has to be comfortable with the routine and how you raise the kids. If you cant do it ask your DH to do it . And just get in and out of Hospital as quick as possible!.

sending you lots of IL's are always a little hard !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cass