took Em to the dietician yesterday. we finally have some answers!! Em is lactose intolerant and as soon as she had LF formula she stopped fussing!!! we tried reducing the thickener and she had huge reflux all over DH. I'm going to petition the fromula companies to make a LF-AR mixture! it is just so expensive to get the LF and thickener. $30+ per week !!!!!

Sonia, u can get an alcohol tester for BM called 'breastscreen' I have seen some on ebay. that way you wont have to waste milk that is fine or risk giving willa an alcoholic drink. I would b avoiding BD for now if i were u coz believe me it's hard having a little age gap.