Allo girls

I just found this thread and hope you dont mind me gatecrashing a bit.

My name is Kylie and i have just had my 3rd child...she was 1 month yesterday...all is going well so far with Katie so cant complain.

I am however having major problems with my lil man, he doesnt act jealous but its like the devil has entered our house...he is soooo damn naughty since having Katie...to the point that I am really worried about it now and worried about myself.

My MACH nurse is keeping an eye on me for PND...she gave me a pamphlet the other day which said in bold "Dont let PND come between you and your baby"...I dont feel thats the case...i feel something is coming between me and my son (Jordan) and I am trying so hard to keep him actively involved with Katie...he loves her to death and isnt cruel but at the same time has to be put in his spot with her...he doesnt realise that he hurts her sometimes when he is being 'loving'.

Everyone is going out of their way to pay him attention...I do every chance I get and so does DH...unfortunately my DD #1 tries to be mummy and DS is just playing up big time when it comes to her...but then he can be so loving at the same time????

My inlaws take Jordi on a Friday night usually...he is there tonight as we had a wedding to go to...normally he is so good for them but he is playing up there too?

People are saying "ahhh terrible twos"...which I have never really believed in...I think they just get to 2 and the world is their oyster...every day is a new adventure for them...but he is being so difficult?

I also am a believer in do as you are told WHEN you are told sort of thing...he just defies this every time now...well almost...when he does do as he is asked I praise him so much...I give him sooo much love and cuddles and praise just in general too.

God what am I doing wrong...I feel like just crying most of the time...not from any form of depression but because of how my lil angel is acting

Other people tell me it will just take time for him to adjust to Katie coming along??? God I hope so

Anyone had anything similar happen? Is there end in sight here...sorry for rambling but I just need to vent a bit and get it off my chest...not much of a hello/welcome poster am I...lol