thanks girls

Julie - in regards to the "bad attitude" - I labelled Brodie this, not the Paed - the paed just thinks that I need some advice on how to "walk away" and how to train Brodie to understand that I am indeed coming back, i think that is the main issue - brodie panics and doesn't think I'm coming back hence resulting in him going bonkers everytime i leave him for more than 2-5minutes (seriously, it's pretty ridiculous) - he even hates it when i put him on his sheepskin to play with his toys and get up and sit on the couch - NO MUMMY - YOU HAVE TO LAY DOWN ON THE FLOOR NEXT TO ME!! - that's how it feels to me.

But we are going to make it through this phase and yes we are going to get a HOUSE TODAY!!! - power of positive thinkin - fingers crossed something decent get's listed - lol.

Tam - I'm so excited for you - it must be a little surreal....