thanks mooshie for all the advice - i too dont like potties cause i remember seeing one full of wee sitting around when i went babysitting & its put me off them but i thought if it was easier id give it a go - i was shocked at how much pull ups were so that's why i asked about undies - will have to go buy some but they'll probably just fall off skinny minnie

the photo thing you got sounds lovely - how rude of the outlaws!! fingers crossed you get those 2 lines but make sure you lie down cause fainting while standing can be harmful