Princess Mya, just had a quick read of your post. Aiden sorta hates being wrapped as well. He gets wrapped for his good sleeps, but, it is tight so he carnt get his arms out, and kick his legs, if he is loosly wrapped, he hates it.

With wind, one of the midwifes recommended not to burp (pay back style) but, to sit him on your lap, sitting up, and gently, and slowly move his body back, and forwards, and side to side. Apparently just helps as well. I noticed yesterday i had been burping him after a feed, not much action, but, when i layed him down to change him, then needed to lift his body up abit to move him, just that change in movement - a heap of milk came up. Maybe try the movement thing, it might help.