All the girls, thanks for your replies. After a horrible afternoon (Tate did not sleep at all and DS#1 decided to do 3 horrible poos in his nappy and cause a yukky nappy rash, among other things), it was nice to come on here and read your helpful and sympathetic replies. Bit angry at DH tho, he seems to think there is a point to asking me if I mind he plays cricket tonight. Of course I mind!! It has been one of the hardest days yet, he knows I was up all night, but how can I tell him I mind, I hate telling him what he can and can't do, it's just not me (unfortunately!). In the end I wrote a text back saying 'Ha, what do you think!', but of course, he played anyway. Oh well.....

Sometimes I feel like the only thing holding me back going back to work is b/feeding.... and guilt, oh and cost of child care. ARGH.

Maybe Tate is cold at the time he is unsettled in the mornings, I think I will put a beanie on him like I used to. He def doesn't need more than the 3 blankets he already has!