jessica- i know wat u mean about the cricket thing my dh was the same 4 years hed done a sport and this year i said his going to have to think about givin the cricket up as ill need extra help with the 4 kids and japanese student..... so he hasnt complained yet but he is so flat out at work it hasnt hit him i dont think anyway>?

cass- i have a tomy baby carrier as well and taylen loves it i used it shopping yesterday can b a bit awkward at times and it also hurts my back a bit as well so i wouldnt like to carry him to much

karina- about the work thing it all sounds good in theory but reality is u will have to come home and do all the same things , i know bcause ive done it before and though t the exact same way as u , but its really quite tiring but then again i did have 3 kids.