Thank you so much girls! Good to know I can vent somewhere haha.
Chris didn't get home until 3.30am and I made him sleep on the couch! I couldn't get to sleep until 4.30am (luckily Friends was on cable hehe) and then Jayden woke at 7am, so three guess who had to get up!! I made sure I made as much noise as I possibly could and when he finally woke up at 10.30/11am I let him have it, telling him that its not fair that he always gets to do whatever he wants and I'm always the one who has to miss out.....his come back to that was "You don't want to do anything" WTF I don't have time to do anything because he won't take Jayden for even 5 mins while I have a shower, I have to wait until he goes back to sleep.........Anyway I had to stop yelling at him, I started getting really light headed and felt so sick and my eyes started going funny, I couldn't focus on anything....which was the start of a migrane! The first one I have had in about 4yrs. I fed Jayden (Chris wouldn't do it because he doesn't know what to feed him). I made up a bottle and put Jayden back to bed about 1pm and I had to lay down and forget housework. Next thing I know its 4.30pm, Chris was asking me how I was feeling and said that Jayden was still asleep too!!SIL#6 was here so her and Chris got Jayden up and bathed him, Chris made dinner and SIL gave me a neck massage!! How things can turn around huh? I still have a headache now but no where near as bad but of course Chris is still in bed now because HE has a headache! He told me put Jayden to bed and go to sleep myself but of course I have work tomorrow and I'll have no other time to do the washing and cleaning seen as yesterday was a write off.
Jayden is a bit out of sorts too, he has sores on the inside of his elbow that the Chemist said will probably turn into school sores, he has been sleeping sooo much (3.5hr nap yesterday) and he has been very clingy and whingy.....and to top it off, I had him in my bed last night to go to sleep and I was just pulling the blanket back off his bed and go and get him when we heard this really loud THUMP! Jayden had fallen off my bed and was screaming so loud! I didn't get him back to bed until nearly 2am after that, I felt so bad!!
Kim: Chris is very narrow minded! I often tell him we are more like roommates than partners, of course he doesn't say much back. He just thinks he is right all the time!
Christine: Big hugs to you!We can vent together haha I have noticed that our lives are similar with some things.
Shazz: Sometimes you just have to let them run free haha although the skateboard might be a bit noisy if you were going to bed haha. Good luck with buyng a new car!!
Vic: Another girls weekend away sounds good! No one to go with though . I hope your weekend picked up a bit.
Sara: This baby is really keeping you on your toes huh? Just keep hanging in there, who cares if they think you're a hypercondriac, yours and the baby's health come first! Unfortunately Chris doesn't need alcohol to be so inconsiderate. He is just selfish and thinks I should be doing everything for Jayden. I make my own desicions for most things but its the big things that I think we should make a desicion on together, like kids (can't do that without him), buying a house etc, as far as me going out and making him look after Jayden, I figure its Jayden thats going to suffer if Chris doesn't want to look after him (not that Chris would hurt him or anything).
Bugger......Jayden's awake from his nap now, shouldn't complain its been 2hrs!! Chris hasn't gotten up from his all night sleep yet!! I might come back later (if I have time ) Have a good day!
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