Jellybean what is the sleepy wrap and where can I get one? Also what is the book you mentioned? I'm at my witts ends today after another restless night. I'm so totally exhausted. All I seem to do is feed her then try to settle her, feed her again etc etc and when settling takes forever or doesn't seem to work it feels like all I'm doing is feeding her and driving myself insane because one of my nipples is still really sore and it's a struggle to feed from that side, but seeing as I've had mastitis I know I need to keep using that boob otherwise it will all get much worse. So today I'm having a bit of a breakdown and I just don't know what to do! I know it will get better but in the meantime I don't know what to do so that I can cope with it better. As much as I love being a mum it is so much harder than I ever imagined!