Very quick post - sorry to hear the DH woes. We have them a bit here but it does improve. A baby in the house is hard for them too and besides don't forget their brain just does not work like ours. They hinestky cannot thnk of something unless it is literally in their face. Forget mult tasking - for men it does not happen.

Viv - I sooooo hear you about the dishwasher thing WTF, just put the bleeding thing in there mate!!! This is related to not putting the new toilet roll on and putting margarine containers back in the fridge that are empty oh and shoving things in the bin until it is literally spilling out. They have no idea.....