Thanks for the wishes Helen, we're clouded with smoke again today, its awful. I think we have a few fires within 1.5/2 hours from here, and there were two yesterday that were about 20min from here :eek:

Nice to see my Dh isnt the only pain in the butt.
I blame my MIL for his attitude towards wives etc. Not that I dont love her to bits but she let FIL get away with doing NOTHING the whole time they were married cause he worked alot (like 7 days a week back in those days but so did MIL) so Ryan thinks he doesnt have to do anything because poor baby works 7:45am-4:30pm 5 days a week and his Dad never helped :mad: He forgets I cook him dinner every night, wash his god dang clothes,do the groceries, take care of Jett, clean the house and pay the bills. All I ask of him is that he takes out the garbage (which Im doing atm), feed and clean up after the dog and mow the lawns/outside maintenance. MIL tells me now to get Ryan to help me out because if I dont he'll never do anything at all! Now my FIL is retired he still only takes care of their dog and occasionally cooks dinner while MIL works 6 days a week. When I was growing up my father worked hours like Ryan but he still knew that garbage, yard and vacuuming/dusting on a sunday was his job and never once complained about doing it cause he knew my Mum did everything else including cart us around to various things.
Thats why I get mad about HIM telling ME when I can have another baby. It should be ultimately my decision as I have to commit for 18 years plus the 10mths of pregnancy. Its not like we arent financially stable either, then I could understand his reluctance. My sister and the inlaws have already said theyd come and help out if I need it.

Oops better go shower while booger is playing happily.