Nelle.. has he got all his comforts in there (if he has any)? It might not work, but maybe giving him one of your shirts or something might make him feel more at home if he can smell you iykwim? Dont know if it this age theyre past that idea though.

Nessa.. :hugs: as i said, that which doesnt kill us makes us stronger.

Shell.. oh thats so true about the cupboard!!