hi everyone
MD you poor thing, it sounds like HELL at your place right now! I feel foryou.
Hayley - big hug, you certainly dont want to live life with regrets but whatever order things happen in your life it will be right for you and your fam. you need to do what your gut says not worry what other people like DPs workmates think. you are young so so many opps ahead of you, in fact they are ahead of us all no matter what age we are if we want them to happen. DH and I went to live oseas when we were 26 - if it is what you want there is nithing to stop you doing that with a little family. my cousins just moved to london with their 2 year old (they are 38ish)... and as for travelling the world with little ones, personally i think this would be a wonderful experience for them at any age. we are planning to move back oseas ina year or 2.
gotta go, N waking - will come back later