omg! sounds bad!!! is alluvial the gold that is like veins in a rock? i have no idea, i am so clueless.

well i now have a 1 yo that likes tantruming so now i have 2 tantruming toddlers. great. j has turned into the king of back archers. i friggin hate it! seriously, i think we should change his name to Archie!

also wanted to ask, did all of you guys who bf let the kids self-wean or did you help things along a little? how?