: Mums With Bubs: Which Of These Would Result In You Wanting More Sex?

51.
  • More sleep

    20 39.22%
  • More quality/talking time with your partner

    3 5.88%
  • More affection/touch from your partner

    6 11.76%
  • Your partner being more attentive in the bedroom

    1 1.96%
  • More help around the house (from partner or other)

    4 7.84%
  • More time with girlfriends / own passions or hobbies

    1 1.96%
  • More alone time

    4 7.84%
  • Your partner improving his physical appearance

    1 1.96%
  • If I had better self esteem / less self conscious

    8 15.69%
  • Want more recovery time / nervous about pain

    3 5.88%

thread: What would make you want more sex after having a baby?

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    Rural NSW near ACT
    413

    I said more affection and touch.......he seems to have transfered that to our LO....not that I mind but I'd like some too.
    I would also feel more "in the mood" if he recognised that being home all day and running my small business as well as keeping house and farm together and looking after LO is equal or more hard work than a full time job.
    I would be a lot more "encouraging" to advances if I had the same number of hours a week to dedicate to my hobby as he dedicates to his hobby..........it seems my work on the week-end is the same as his "playtime" on the week-end........

  2. #2
    Moderator

    Oct 2004
    In my Zombie proof fortress.
    6,449

    Can't really answer one. For me it is understanding, the rest kind of flows on from there. Understanding that I am tired, touched out, overwhelmed by housework etc I suppose acknowledgement of what life is like at that point in time.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
    2,341

    Ok, I'll admit it. If my hubby looked a bit more like Will Smith I'd jump him more often