I think after mine, sleep, followed by more help around the house were the biggest things.

More understanding & attention from your partner to bring back self confidence, & time to yourself/with girlfriends & to just do the things you love are big too.

I've now pretty much been 18 months without, so if someone looked at me the right way I'd probably be good to go!
But self confidence is a huge thing here & a big reason (ok, probably the only reason) I've been 18 months without...