Just more on what meow was saying - yes hormones while breastfeeding can kill your libido: Libido and Breastfeeding - Whats Happened To My Sex Drive Now I Am Breastfeeding?

I am writing an article which will mention that, but also tying in all the common complaints women have about their men wanting sex and not understanding why.

Lots of great responses here, thank you Please do share as much as you feel comfortable, appreciate the contributions!