Hey megsmum. Sorry to hear about your insensitive rellies. You know what they say - you can choose your friends.......but you can't choose your family. At the end of the day they love you dearly but sometimes you do find better support outside the family circle. I've found that anyway, the closer they are to you the more opinionated they are where as people outside tend to listen to you more.

Some people just don't get it do they? I agree with starrysky, I've found the support in here great.

Take Care & best wishes