MY family have been the same, pretending that it did not happen and my sis has said nothing, my friends have been the best and talk about it , thank goodness for good friends.sending you a big hug and we are all here for you.
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MY family have been the same, pretending that it did not happen and my sis has said nothing, my friends have been the best and talk about it , thank goodness for good friends.sending you a big hug and we are all here for you.
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Thanks ladies
I'm feeling a bit calmer now *takes deep breath*
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Hi Megmum
i totally understand what you mean when i lost my little girl at 23 wks my inlaws were not to be seen when i found out that i was going to have to give birth to her i was telling my MIL and i said about getting hand a foot prints and some pics of my beautiful baby girl and she said errrrrrrrr that is just morbid and looking down at me also when the funeral came they didnt come as they didnt want to go to a funeral of someone they never new and was also told it wasnt a baby it was a fetus my god did they make me angry i have not forgeven them to this day i have been seeing a councellor cos what they said hurt me so much it was also my MIL mum who was saying it as well i just cant believe how they could be so nasty they dont even no how upset i am with them and my DH was not there when they said but i wish he was cos at the time i didnt say anything i was in shock of what they said and just wanted to get out of there house. i am just so glad i had my family and friends who supported me my sister even came to the hospital to hold my baby girl and my dad came to see her and eveyone came to the funeral so i think it was there loss although i wish my DH had support from his family they are total (ar*eholes) sorry to rant on just wanted you to no you are not alone honey and the experience you had you will never forget its something that will stay with you for life and people need to realise that.
take care honey
Munchy xxx
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Megsmum
You should have told her you wanted to be pregnant!!!!
Some people can get over a miscarriage quite easily and just get on with life. (like one of my friends hence she was no help to me)
i am like you and took along time to heal emotionaly (still going to counciling).
Your MIL has nothing else to worry about than what she is going to buy and what she is going to do on christmas.
Only worry about you, your DH and your daughter. No one else matters!!!
Take care
Chris
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