thread: Baby Alexander - born and died 28-04-08

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    Danek: I'm sorry that you didn't get an answer as to why you lost your baby boy. You are not alone, with about 50% of stillborn babies there is no reason they can find. We had some ideas as to why we lost Harry, but no one could give us a reason or a name for it I know how hard it is.

    Just give your hubby time, the grief is still so raw at the moment and I'm sure with a little bit of time he will gather his strength and want to try again.

    Lv Spring.

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    Danek, I'm sorry you didn't get some answers Your DH may just need a little bit more time to grieve until he is ready to try again. Men show their emotions differently to us and he may be scared of trying again and not strong enough to say it out loud. Keep talking, tell each other what you are feeling and thinking and you will get through this together

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    Both of you have been through so much. I totally understand where DH is coming from. Give him a bit of time. He'll get there.
    Sorry you got no answers.

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