I really feel for you both.

I have had 4 miscarriages in 18 months (most recent 4 weeks ago). #2 -I let myself miscarry naturally at 5 weeks which was fine as there was not much to come out. However, when you miscarry later there is alot more to miscarry (but not sure with blighted ovum?). With my 3rd miscarriage I was told to just see how I go (bad idea) - I found out at 8 weeks that I had miscarried and did not start to fully bleed until 12 1/2 weeks after amuch spotting and cramping- what a saga! When the bleeding did start I could not get off the toilet for about 8 hours (similar to hemoraging)and then had to have an ultrsound the next day to see if it was all out - it wasn't - so had to have a d&C. I would not wish this on anyone as it feels like labour. Check with your OB but a D&C is a more humane way to do it.

Love and good luck XX