I am so sorry to hear your loss mrj, it all sounds too familiar as I only had my missed miscarriage last Thursday, the fetus stopped growing at 6w2d when we had our second scan at 9 weeks ...I then had a D&C the next day, as I didn't have any bleeding or cramps at all...I am still recovering from the D&C and it seems slowly on the mend now...

Maybe talk to your doctor so at least you know your options if you are still not miscarrying naturally in a few days...

I can't believe the clinic wasn't very sensitive to deal with the situation, your poor thing had to go through that grief at this difficult time.

Sending you big hugs to you and your DH, look after yourself and try to think all the positives, I know its very hard right at this moment (which I just been through), allow yourself to get all the emotions out, cry, scream or be angry, its a phase and you will feel better afterwards...

Thinking of you!