So sorry to hear about your loss.
The treatment and lack of support is terriblle.

I had a blighted ovum last yr at 8 weeks and had a D & C at recommendation of my ob due to the fact 8 weeks is a larger sac to pass naturally and a d & C also means you know it is all finished and you can grieve without having to go throught to much extra pain (natural msscarriage is very painful and mild analegsis post d and c is adequte) and also you do not need to go for a reperat us to see if it is complete.

Good luck for next time
xoxo