Hi Brockstar

I am so sorry for your loss and I too know where you are coming from. People don't know the right things to say so say the things that we don't want to hear, they are just trying to help but we know it just makes us worse. Only you and your DH will know when the time is right to try again, I just couldn't try straightaway it seemed like I was backdooring the little one that I had lost but everyone is different.
I was desperate for a 2nd child too for our little Man and we are nearly there but there is no point doing it for the wrong reasons. You have to be ready physically and mentally and only you will know when that is.
Take care of yourself and grieve in whatever way you need to.