Hi Snowie,
I'm so sorry for all 3 of your losses, each individual little baby. You are a much braver person than me. I just had my first m/c and my doctor told me they would do chromosome testing automatically. I'm really glad about this and I didn't even know it was an option. From what I have read, O/G start doing more testing after 2 m/c. Even so, it should be your option whether you want the tests done or not, especially if you are a private patient and are footing the bill! My advice would be to get a new doctor, why put up with sub-standard service.