Good luck Snowie- i too "interviewed" my ob, he was one of 4 i saw, and you are so right, we are the ones paying, its our body and our babies, so we need to be comfy with our providers. I went on how muxh they were willing to let me control what was going on, and how concerned they were with my history etc. One dr was very blazay(sp) about it all continuing to say i have just had bad luck and this time there was no need to have any close observations, just hope for the best- needless to say, i didnt go back to him and went with the guy who said i would have weekly monitoring, a delivery of my choice and who was clam and softly spoken and who is actually pretty high up in his possie at the hospital.

Good luck with your FS too, sometimes i have found it helps to actually ask to speak to the dr, not just the receptionist as your FS might be able to get them to sqeeze you in early, after you tell her what has happened, rather than just leaving it to the receptionist who may not know you from a bar of soap!! LOL

I have had a few "breaks from ttc" in my time, and while i hated every second i wasnt trying, i knew it was for the best in the long run. Good luck, and i hope you get some answers and some good positive care and you have all the success in the world!!

If you dont mind me asking, where abouts are you?

Take Care
xoxoxo