Doza, I am so sorry to hear about your precious little girl Emily My heart goes out to you, tomorrow is going to be one of the hardest days and wish you all the strength to get through it. It really is hard to get your head around the fact that this can happen. It is something that we are not prepared for when pregnant, you get past that 12 weeks and just think everything is fine and I just wish we werent the "unlucky" ones who come to realise that just isnt true.

About the clotting issue... I lost my son at 36w1d in September of last year and at first I was told it was "bad luck" and had all of the tests run which showed nothing. However, with the encouragement of my BB friends I sought a second opinion and found out I have a blood clotting condition called anticardiolipin antibodies. It caused a blood clot in the placenta. The antibodies were not found in my original bloods because they cannot be found until at least 6w post partum. It is not to say that you DO have a blood issue but I would definitely pass on the same advice I was given and that is to not rest until you are satisfied that you have got the answers you need. Sadly sometimes there are no answers, but we all need to make sure of that before we can "accept" it as true.

I wish you so much strength for tomorrow as you say goodbye to your beautiful girl. If you need anything we are all here for you. And as Lynn said, if and when you feel like it come over to the TTC after recurrent miscarriage/late loss/stillbirth thread. Not everyone in there was TTC when they first got involved. It really is not just a TTC thread but more a support thread.

:hugs: to you.

Mel