I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious angel, big to you. It's not fair losing a baby, just remember your angel will always be close to your heart, hang on to those memories tightly. Take day by day and give yourself time to heal. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
Trisomy 13
It is devastating for the children too. My DD cried for weeks, every night she would talk to my belly and kiss bubba good night. When I came home from hospital she couldn't understand why I didn't bring our baby home. I found being open with them about Emmanuels death helped and answering their questions even though it brought me to tears every time.
Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
Trisomy 13
I just cant be honest with them mainly because we have no idea what happened yet and the boys are only 5 and 3 and my little girl is only 21 months.. they do still kiss my belly and they just dont get that Bubba will not be coming home. I have explained that bub is in heaven and that heaven is a great place for a baby to be and now my 3 year old wants to go live in heaven too..
and it is hard that i am still in pysical pain too.. i just didnt expect it to be a normal labour,
i know it will get easier eventually but it just feels like our lives will never be normal again.
i am so sorry for your loss. i just can't imagine what you are going through. my brother lost his baby boy at 24 weeks and he will be in our hearts forever. i just want you to know i am thinking of you. it is my worst nightmare for that to happen. you are so excited for the scan and then your world crashes down. take care.
I am sending you a big you must be so devestated after seeing a heart beat the other week, we are all here to give you suport through this sad time.
I hope your pains will not last too much longer mine lasted about 48 hrs after my miscarriage but I had to keep taking pain killers for about a week until I was pain free, when you have had a few children your womb has a bit more work to do to get back to normal so hang in there its natures way of making sure you can try again one day.
Try to get some rest and put your thoughts on here there is always someone willing to listen and help in this emotional time you are going through if it wasn't for this forum I would not feel as strong as I do today only 4wks since my loss so keep in touch and don't be too hard on yourself
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to you. It's not fair losing a baby, just remember your angel will always be close to your heart, hang on to those memories tightly. Take day by day and give yourself time to heal. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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