It doesn't matter what age you are and whether your pregnancy was planned or not, it is heartbreaking to lose your babies...especially if you have started to make plans because you also lose your hopes and dreams for them. And yes, men do grieve differently. I had my 2nd M/C 5 weeks ago and it felt as if my DH had already forgotten about it - but he hasn't. Just this morning, he was saying that it has all just hit him and he feels very sad.

Take the time to grieve - if you can't share it with your finance, share it with a trusted friend or the supportive women on this board.

Take care