I'm so sorry for your loss honey I think a m/c is one of the hardest things to go through, especially since you lost your twins. I can only imagine how hard that must have been for you. I too had a m/c 5weeks ago and my heart is still so heavy and sad
In regards to you being young, no one has the right to judge you on that. Just because you're young doesn't mean you should be any less upset about your loss! I think thats disgusting that anyone would dudge you like that. You have every right to grieve and mourn your loss. I too am a young mum. I had my first baby at 21 and although thats a little older than you, i still got a lot of dissaproving looks and comments from people.
Nothing i say will make what you are going through any easier, i too an still very confused and hurt. It's especially hard when your partner doesn't really want to talk about it. The m/c turned my husband off wanting to try again, i think seeing me in pain was too much for him to take and the thought of it happening again is too scary for him. Men also grieve alot differently. I think because it isn't physically happening to them then they find it hard to connect to the loss. Whereas us women have the emotional pain and the physical pain to deal with.
All i can say is that you're not walking this road alone. The other ladies here are so lovely and are always there to listen. I posted my story here the other day (miscarriage at 6 weeks, where to now?) and i've recieved such a positive response and lots of support.
Take care of yourself. I'm praying and thinking of you xoxo