Oh honey i am so sorry for the loss of your babies sending big hugs to you it is horrible feeling you are alone but dont we are all hear for you to talk to and all the girls are right men deal with grief so different to us girls i lost my angel at 23 wks and my dh did cry at the time and a week after giving birth i was still crying allt he time and he turned round and said ( why you still crying you shouldnt be crying about it now ) i thought who is this man and why did i marry such an insensitive person but it was all because he was hurting as well i think he was angry at the fact we lost our little girl and there was nothing we could do and to see me go through the birth of a stillborn and the all the heartache was hard for him to deal with. also i wanted to start trying straght away but he didnt and in the end he said he was scared of it all happening all over again so i think the best thing is just give you DP time and he will talk just tell him how you feel honey and if it doesnt work councelling is a good idea as that has helped me so much. And as to your age that doesnt come into it you have still lost your babies and i think when loosing a baby the one thing you want more than anything is another baby take care honey keep us updated on how you getting on.
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